When a parent dies and leaves a house to two or more children, the siblings have to decide what happens to it. In New York there are four basic outcomes: sell and split the proceeds, have one sibling buy out the others, keep the property and co-own it, or ask a court to partition it. This guide covers the order in which those choices come up, who has authority at each stage, and how New York law values and adjusts each sibling's share. Where a single issue needs more detail, we link to a page focused on that issue.
Written by Albert Goodwin, Esq., a New York estate, trust, and probate attorney who handles Surrogate's Court proceedings and inheritance disputes. About the author.
Many families assume nobody owns the house until the estate is settled. That is not quite how New York law works. Under EPTL § 13-1.3, title to a decedent's real property generally passes at death to the people who inherit it. Those are the devisees named in a will, or the distributees under intestacy if there is no will. Their ownership is subject to the powers of the estate's fiduciary (the executor or administrator).
Those powers are broad. Under EPTL § 11-1.1, a fiduciary can take possession of estate real property, collect rents, pay carrying costs, and in many cases sell, mortgage, or lease it. The siblings already hold an ownership interest while the estate is open. The fiduciary still controls the property, and a buyer or lender will usually want a deed or other documents signed by a court-appointed fiduciary before treating title as clear.
Who the owners are depends on whether there is a will:
If a will leaves property to two or more people without saying how they hold it, EPTL § 6-2.2 treats them as tenants in common, not joint tenants. Each sibling owns an undivided fractional share of the whole property. There is no right of survivorship between them.
Before anything can be divided, someone has to be appointed by the Surrogate's Court in the county where the parent lived. With a will, the named executor petitions for probate and letters testamentary. Without a will, a distributee petitions for letters of administration, with priority set by SCPA § 1001. The NYC probate timeline page walks through the filing steps.
Once appointed, the fiduciary has to pay funeral expenses, administration costs, taxes, and valid debts before making distributions. SCPA § 1811 sets the order of priority. If the estate does not have enough cash, the house may have to be sold or mortgaged to cover those obligations, and the siblings divide only what is left.
The fiduciary also files an inventory of assets with the court. 22 NYCRR § 207.20 requires the inventory within six months of the issuance of letters. Real property is listed at its date-of-death value, which usually means getting a professional appraisal. That same appraisal often becomes the starting point for any later buyout discussion.
If siblings cannot get into the house to secure it or look for documents, see access to a house after a parent's death.
Most well-drafted wills give the executor an express power of sale. Even without one, EPTL § 11-1.1 gives fiduciaries statutory authority over estate property, subject to the terms of the will. When authority is unclear, a title company objects, or the beneficiaries disagree about a sale, the fiduciary can petition the Surrogate's Court under SCPA Article 19 for permission to sell, mortgage, or lease the real property. SCPA § 1902 lists the purposes the court will consider, including paying debts and expenses and making distribution. Interested persons receive notice and can object, and the court decides whether the proposed sale is appropriate.
A fiduciary who wants to buy the house personally is in a different position. That is self-dealing. It generally requires the informed consent of all beneficiaries or approval from the court, and the price is open to challenge. A sibling who serves as executor and also wants to keep the house should get advice before making an offer.
If the house is not sold during administration, the fiduciary usually deeds it to the siblings, who then hold it as tenants in common. From that point the fiduciary steps out. Any decision about the property is made by the co-owners themselves. If they cannot agree, a court makes it in a partition action.
The table compares the four paths. The costs and timelines are typical ranges in New York and will vary with the property, the county, and how much the siblings agree on.
| Option | Who decides | Main costs | Typical timing | Best fit |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Sell and split proceeds | Fiduciary during administration, or all co-owners after distribution | Broker commission, New York State transfer tax, New York City transfer tax for city property, closing and legal fees | A few months once the property is listed | No sibling wants to keep the house, and everyone accepts a market price |
| One sibling buys out the others | Agreement among the siblings, or the fiduciary with consent or court approval | Appraisal, buyer's financing costs, transfer tax on the consideration paid, legal fees | Often driven by how long the buyer needs to obtain financing | One sibling wants the house and can pay or borrow fair value |
| Keep and co-own | All co-owners, ideally under a written agreement | Ongoing taxes, insurance, repairs, and any mortgage, shared by ownership share | Open-ended | Siblings who get along and want rental income or shared use |
| Partition | Supreme Court, on the petition of any co-owner | Attorney's fees, referee fees, appraisal, sale costs, all reducing net proceeds | Commonly a year or more, longer if contested | Siblings who cannot reach agreement after negotiation |
For siblings who keep the house, a written co-ownership agreement should cover who may live there, how expenses and rental income are split, what happens if someone stops paying, and how a co-owner can exit. Co-owners can also agree in writing to limit or delay the right to partition. Without an agreement, every disagreement defaults to the rules described below.
For the mechanics of offering or responding to a buyout, see buyout of an inherited residence. For a property titled to two people with unclear shares, see a house in two names.
Most buyout disputes are not about whether one sibling can buy. They are about the number. A fair buyout figure usually comes from four steps.
Negotiated buyouts usually end with a deed from the selling siblings, a release of claims for past expenses, and, if a mortgage exists, payoff or refinancing by the buyer. Transfer taxes may apply to the consideration paid for the shares being bought.
This is the area where families most often misunderstand their rights. Every tenant in common has the right to possess and use the entire property, regardless of the size of their share. A sibling who lives in the house is exercising that right.
In New York, a co-owner in sole possession generally does not owe the other co-owners rent or use-and-occupancy unless there has been an ouster or an agreement to pay. The Court of Appeals stated this rule in Jemzura v. Jemzura, 36 N.Y.2d 496 (1975). Ouster means more than living there alone. It usually requires that the occupying sibling exclude the others, for example by changing the locks, refusing a clear demand for access, or claiming the house as their own. If ouster is shown, the excluded siblings may recover their share of the fair rental value.
Separately, co-owners share carrying costs by ownership percentage. An occupying sibling who pays all the taxes may seek contribution, and the others may raise the value of that occupancy as an offset. During estate administration, the fiduciary has additional tools, because the fiduciary can take possession of estate property under EPTL § 11-1.1.
These rules, and the steps for removing a sibling who will not leave, are covered on our page about a sibling living rent-free in the inherited house.
Siblings who are deadlocked sometimes assume partition is the only option. Which court and which procedure apply depends on the stage of the estate.
Partition is an equitable remedy. New York courts have held that although a co-owner has a right to seek partition, that right is subject to equitable considerations. See Manganiello v. Lipman, 74 A.D.3d 667 (1st Dep't 2010). In practice, the court looks at the whole relationship, including who paid what, before dividing proceeds. Most single-family homes cannot be physically divided, so the usual result is a sale, often through a court-appointed referee, followed by an accounting of credits and offsets. Our partition of real property page covers the steps of a partition case.
New York adopted the Uniform Partition of Heirs Property Act, codified at RPAPL § 993, to reduce forced sales of family property at low prices. The protections apply when the property qualifies as heirs property. In general, that means there is no agreement binding all co-owners that governs partition, and the ownership is concentrated among relatives who acquired their interests through a family member. Inherited family homes often qualify. The court decides whether a particular property meets the statutory definition.
When the statute applies, the partition process changes in several ways:
For a sibling who wants to keep the family home, the buyout right can be the most useful tool in the case. The practical question is whether that sibling can raise the money within the time the court allows.
A mortgage stays on the property after death. Federal law at 12 U.S.C. § 1701j-3 generally prevents a lender from enforcing a due-on-sale clause when a residential property passes to a relative because of the borrower's death. Siblings can then sell and pay off the loan, keep paying it, or have one sibling refinance as part of a buyout. Options for raising buyout funds are covered on our page about borrowing against inherited property.
Tax results depend on individual facts. Siblings should confirm their position with a tax professional before agreeing on a price.
Disagreements about a house often come with other estate disputes. If a sibling took money or property before or after the parent's death, the fiduciary can bring a discovery and turnover proceeding. If the fiduciary is not acting properly, beneficiaries can seek removal of the fiduciary under SCPA § 711. If the will itself is in question, see will contests. For a broader view of sibling and family estate fights, see inheritance disputes in New York City and beneficiary and executor conflicts.
No. While the estate is open, the fiduciary generally has authority to sell, and disputes over a sale can be taken to the Surrogate's Court. After the property is distributed, a single co-owner can seek a court-ordered sale through partition, subject to the heirs-property protections in RPAPL § 993 where they apply.
Generally yes. Under EPTL § 13-1.3, title passes at death to the people entitled to inherit, subject to the fiduciary's powers. In practice, the siblings cannot sell or refinance on their own until a fiduciary is appointed and administration has progressed.
Not automatically. Under Jemzura v. Jemzura, a co-owner in sole possession is generally not liable for use and occupancy without an ouster or an agreement. The value of that occupancy can still come into play as an offset when expenses are divided.
Possibly. You can negotiate a buyout. If the matter goes to partition and the property qualifies as heirs property, RPAPL § 993 gives co-owners who did not request the sale a right to buy the others out at the court-determined value.
An uncontested estate in New York commonly takes about a year from filing to distribution, depending on the county and the assets. A contested sale, a will contest, or a partition action can add a year or more.
The law offices of Albert Goodwin handle estate administration, Surrogate's Court proceedings, sibling buyouts, and partition matters in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, and elsewhere in New York. We can review the will or intestacy situation, the title to the property, and the expenses each sibling has paid, and explain which options are open to you. Call 212-233-1233 or email [email protected].
This article provides general information about New York law and is not legal advice. It does not create an attorney-client relationship. Statutes, court rules, and tax thresholds change, and the outcome of any matter depends on its specific facts. Consult a New York attorney about your situation.