
If someone has filed a guardianship petition against you, you want to know how to fight it, because what is at stake is your freedom to run your own life. A court should never take away the self-determination of a person who is capable of making his or her own decisions. A person is presumed to have that capacity unless the petitioner proves otherwise, and the whole of a guardianship defense is built on that presumption.
The relatives who bring these cases, usually children or siblings, are often trying to stop you from being influenced by someone who is not them. They may be worried that you are giving money to one child, to a relative, to a caretaker or to a romantic partner. You have the right to manage your money as you see fit, even if your relatives disagree with the choice.
They may also be worried that you are making a will that leaves them out. A guardianship petition filed shortly after a person makes a will, or filed to prevent a person from having the capacity to make one, is in substance a will contest brought before death. Most people want to keep their independence, including the ability to leave their estate to whomever they choose, which is why the case is worth fighting when the facts support it. We cover that pattern on our page on guardianship used to change an estate plan.
The goal depends on the person’s actual condition. If the person has capacity, the goal is dismissal. If the person needs some help, the goal is a narrowly tailored guardianship that appoints a guardian only for the needs that exist, without a finding that the person is completely incapacitated.
Under Article 81 of the Mental Hygiene Law, the petitioner must prove by clear and convincing evidence that the alleged incapacitated person (AIP) is “incapacitated.” That has two elements: the AIP is likely to suffer harm because he or she cannot adequately understand and appreciate the nature and consequences of his or her actions, and the AIP cannot adequately manage property or personal affairs. Both must be proven. The petitioner does not win by showing that the AIP makes decisions the family dislikes; the court looks at functional incapacity, meaning whether the AIP can actually manage his or her affairs, not at the quality of the decisions.
New York guardianships are narrowly tailored. The court does not have to declare a person completely incapacitated; it can craft a guardianship that addresses only the needs that exist. If someone can balance a checkbook but cannot shop or cook alone, a guardian is appointed only for those needs. New York also separates personal needs guardianship from property management guardianship. The two often go together, but they need not, and a person can have one without the other. For many people the ability to handle personal needs goes long before the ability to manage property.
Every Article 81 proceeding involves a court evaluator, a neutral third party, usually an attorney, appointed by the court to investigate and report. The evaluator meets with the AIP to assess capacity firsthand, makes home visits, and interviews relatives, caretakers, health care professionals, friends and anyone else involved in the AIP’s life. The evaluator reviews medical records and financial documents, tries to get a picture of the AIP’s assets and ability to manage them, investigates any allegation of exploitation or abuse, and makes sure the AIP is not being taken advantage of. The evaluator then files a report with findings and recommendations, appears at the hearing, and can be cross-examined.
That report is often the most important document in the case. Being cooperative with the evaluator, giving accurate information and demonstrating capacity in the interview can substantially affect the outcome.
The AIP has the right to a lawyer, and if the AIP has none or cannot afford one the court appoints counsel. The AIP’s lawyer advocates for what the AIP actually wants, not for what the lawyer thinks is best, investigates the case independently, cross-examines the petitioner’s witnesses, presents the case for dismissal or for limited relief, and advises the AIP about settlement. Retaining your own counsel rather than relying only on the court-appointed lawyer is often worthwhile: retained counsel works exclusively for you and can pursue strategies the appointed lawyer might not. See our page on guardianship attorneys in New York.
Defending a guardianship means proving capacity affirmatively, not just poking holes in the petition. The evidence that does that falls into a few categories.
| Evidence | What it shows |
|---|---|
| Independent medical evaluation | A neutral physician or psychologist assessing capacity in detail, contradicting the petitioner’s claims. |
| Financial records | Bills paid on time, accounts maintained, taxes filed: proof of financial competence. |
| Daily-living evidence | Affidavits or testimony from neighbors, friends and others who see the AIP managing daily life. |
| Caregiver testimony | If the AIP has caregivers, their account of the AIP’s capacity and of the family’s behavior. |
| Documents | Letters, emails, contracts and other papers that show the AIP’s cognitive function. |
| The AIP’s own testimony | An AIP who testifies clearly about his or her own situation is often the most persuasive witness in the room. |
Guardianship petitions are sometimes driven by family conflict rather than genuine concern. The motives we see most often are disagreement with the AIP’s estate planning choices, disapproval of the AIP’s relationships with caregivers, friends or romantic partners, family disputes over inheritance or money, an attempt to control the AIP’s assets before death, and an attempt to stop the AIP from changing existing arrangements. Exposing an ulterior motive undermines the petition, because the court is more skeptical of a case that looks self-interested than of one focused on the AIP’s actual needs.
Article 81 requires the court to consider alternatives less restrictive than a guardianship. If the AIP can manage with one of these, guardianship should be denied, and arguing for an alternative can produce a dismissal even where some help is appropriate.
| Alternative | What it does |
|---|---|
| Power of attorney | The AIP voluntarily designates an agent for specific financial decisions. |
| Health care proxy | The AIP voluntarily designates someone to make health care decisions. |
| Representative payee | Social Security benefits are managed by a third party. |
| Trust arrangement | The AIP voluntarily transfers assets to a trust with structured management. |
| Supportive services | Care management, financial counseling or other support with no legal restriction on the AIP. |
If the court finds that some guardianship is necessary, the next question is how much. Article 81 requires a limited rather than a plenary guardianship whenever possible. A limited guardianship might cover property management for specific assets only, such as investment accounts, while the AIP keeps control of everything else; personal needs decisions in one area, such as medical care, while the AIP keeps the rest; a temporary guardianship for a defined period to deal with a specific situation; or a standby guardianship that activates only on specified triggers. Even when some guardianship is imposed, fighting for a narrow scope preserves as much autonomy as possible.
Many guardianship cases settle, and a settlement can avoid the cost and stress of a full hearing while still protecting the AIP. Common structures are the AIP signing or updating a power of attorney in place of a guardianship; the family agreeing to specific oversight without one; the AIP accepting certain financial controls while keeping decision-making; a neutral third party rather than a family member serving as guardian if one is needed; or particular assets being placed under structured management while the rest stay with the AIP. The right settlement depends on the facts.
If the case goes to a hearing, the petitioner must present clear and convincing evidence of incapacity. The AIP has the right to be present, to testify, to cross-examine the petitioner and the petitioner’s witnesses, to call witnesses, to introduce documents, and to demand a jury trial, though juries are rare in these cases. If a guardianship is granted despite the defense, options remain: an appeal, a later proceeding to terminate the guardianship if the AIP’s situation changes, and advocacy with the guardian over how the guardianship is administered. Our page on how guardianship works describes the proceeding from the other side.
Some people need a guardian. Many do not, and they are entitled to fight the petition with everything they have. If a guardianship case has been brought against you or someone you care about, call us at 212-233-1233 or email [email protected].