New York gives a surviving spouse a strong position in a decedent's estate. A spouse takes a large share if there is no will, can override a will through the right of election, and takes exempt property off the top. EPTL 5-1.2 lists the situations in which a person who was still legally married to the decedent at death is nonetheless treated as if there were no surviving spouse at all. If one of the listed grounds is proven, the spouse loses those statutory rights.
EPTL 5-1.2(a) provides that a husband or wife is a "surviving spouse" for purposes of the intestacy statute (EPTL 4-1.1), the right of election (EPTL 5-1.1-A), the family exemption (EPTL 5-3.1), and distribution of wrongful death proceeds (EPTL 5-4.4), unless the court is satisfied that one of six grounds exists. The statute does not dissolve the marriage. It removes the surviving spouse from the class of people who benefit from those specific sections.
Under EPTL 5-1.2(b), the burden of proof is on the party asserting the disqualification. The spouse does not have to prove entitlement; the children, other distributees, or the fiduciary must prove the ground for disqualification to the court's satisfaction.
EPTL 5-1.2(a) sets out these grounds:
Most contested cases involve EPTL 5-1.2(a)(5). Courts apply the same meaning of abandonment used in matrimonial law under Domestic Relations Law § 170(2). The party asserting disqualification must show that the surviving spouse left the marital home, that the departure was without the decedent's consent, that it was without justification, and that it continued until death.
Each element matters. A spouse who moved out because of the decedent's cruelty, violence, or infidelity has a justification and is not disqualified. Spouses who separated by mutual agreement have not abandoned each other, even if they lived apart for decades. A spouse who left but was later welcomed back, or who reconciled shortly before death, has not abandoned the decedent "until the time of death." The Court of Appeals in Matter of Riefberg, 58 N.Y.2d 134 (1983), confirmed that the question is whether the departure was unjustified, and that the court looks at the conduct of both spouses.
Evidence in these cases typically includes testimony from family members and neighbors, changes of address, tax returns filed as single or separately, correspondence, orders of protection, and records from any matrimonial action that was started but never finished.
Under EPTL 5-1.2(a)(6), the objectant must prove three things: the survivor had a legal duty to support the decedent, the survivor had the means or ability to provide support, and the survivor failed or refused. Courts also look for evidence that the decedent actually needed support. A wealthy decedent who never asked for help is unlikely to have been the victim of non-support. If the survivor resumed support and kept it up until death, the ground disappears.
EPTL 5-1.2 affects only the statutory rights listed in subdivision (a). It does not revoke a bequest in the decedent's will. A spouse who abandoned the decedent but is still named as a beneficiary in a valid will takes under the will. Only a final divorce or annulment revokes will provisions for a former spouse, and that operates under a different section, EPTL 5-1.4.
The statute also does not reach non-probate assets on its own. Life insurance, retirement accounts, and joint accounts pass by beneficiary designation or by operation of law. EPTL 5-1.2 has no effect on them unless the asset would otherwise be pulled into the elective share calculation as a testamentary substitute under EPTL 5-1.1-A(b).
The slayer rule, which bars a person who intentionally kills the decedent from inheriting, is a separate common-law doctrine and is not part of EPTL 5-1.2.
A decedent dies without a will leaving a net estate of $900,000, a spouse, and two children. Under EPTL 4-1.1(a)(1), a surviving spouse takes $50,000 plus one-half of the balance: $50,000 + $425,000 = $475,000. The children share the remaining $425,000. If the children prove that the spouse abandoned the decedent twelve years earlier and never returned, the spouse is disqualified and the children take the full $900,000, or $450,000 each.
A decedent's will leaves the entire $600,000 net estate to a sibling. A surviving spouse ordinarily has an elective share under EPTL 5-1.1-A equal to the greater of $50,000 or one-third of the net estate, here $200,000. If the sibling proves that a judgment of separation was rendered against the spouse and was still in effect at death, the spouse has no right of election and receives nothing.
The family exemption under EPTL 5-3.1 lets a surviving spouse take household items, one vehicle up to $25,000, and cash up to $25,000, among other property, ahead of creditors and beneficiaries. A spouse disqualified under EPTL 5-1.2 loses the exemption. If there are minor children, the exemption passes to them instead.
There is no freestanding "disqualification proceeding." The issue is raised inside a proceeding in which the spouse claims a right as surviving spouse:
The party asserting disqualification pleads the specific ground, serves the spouse, and proceeds to discovery and a hearing. The Surrogate decides the facts. Because the statute requires that the ground be "established satisfactorily to the court," the objectant should assemble documentary proof before filing rather than relying on family testimony alone.
EPTL 5-1.2 has no limitation period of its own. The timing is set by the underlying proceeding. A spouse must exercise the right of election within six months after letters issue and in no event later than two years after death (EPTL 5-1.1-A(d)(1)). An objectant who wants to challenge the spouse's status should raise it promptly in the administration or election proceeding; waiting until a final accounting risks a claim that distributions to the spouse have already been made and cannot be recovered.
Albert Goodwin represents surviving spouses defending their statutory rights and distributees seeking to establish disqualification in Surrogate's Courts throughout New York.
For children and other distributees, we investigate the marital history, gather the documentary record, and file objections in the administration, election, or accounting proceeding to establish abandonment, non-support, or an invalid decree under EPTL 5-1.2. For surviving spouses, we answer the objections, prove justification or consent for any separation, and secure the intestate share, elective share, or exempt property the statute provides.
You can contact the Law Offices of Albert Goodwin by phone at 212-233-1233 or by email at [email protected].